Light this candle to help you to relax and let events unfold as they will while finding the true meaning behind your current situation. 

The Hanged Man is the card of self-sacrifice in the search for greater perspective. The outcome may best be improved by letting go. This can involve a sacrifice of something you love in favor of your best interest, or it may mean that your struggle to control things has made your situation worse. Be passive, especially if that is the opposite of your normal reaction or what others expect from you. If you relax and let events unfold, you can discover the true meaning behind the scenario.